I think I find someone sexy and fun is obviously more a personal feeling on matters while I am looking for someone who will help me meet our goals for Q4 with a high degree of technical excellence seems something that should be measurable and not left up to a feeling at the moment.
So I guess I don't realize it's exactly like, I personally I feel it is significantly different.
don't you realize it's exactly like
"attractive women reject the wrong suitors"
???